All in Ask Lady Mel

Ask The Preacher's Wife: How Do I Deal With Haters?

Jealousy and Envy are real! You will have haters. People will dislike you because of what they feel they lack. Your clothes, your swag, your gifting, your job, your spouse, your looks, and on and on. Those are their insecurities, not yours. Here are 4 tips to help you deal with your haters, while walking in God’s purpose for your life!

Ask The Preacher's Wife: How Can I Navigate While Being Black And Christian?

Being black in America is mentally draining. From code switching to figuring out “appropriate” hair styles to “speaking properly” to working and living in all-white spaces, it can literally be exhausting. But, when we know who we are and who’s we are, we can continue the work to reclaim what’s been lost and restore what’s been broken in OUR homes, OUR churches, and OUR communities.

Ask The Preacher's Wife: Is Watching Pornography Wrong?

God created us as sexual beings, and because we don't discuss the divine origin of sex, the purpose of sex, the beauty of sex, the mutual satisfaction that should be found in sex, we leave it up to those who don't believe in God to define what sex looks like for us, and eventually we arrive at pornography as we know it today.